Somewhat obvious unsolicited advice

Ya know what ticks me off... people with no patience. In particular, parents with no patience!

I want to change those people.
I will ALWAYS want my child(ren) to have a happy childhood, not because it was perfect, but because Mom was happy.(Dad too)

In order for people to change, they need to know what causes this irritableness; this need to rush through life. Haven't you ever heard of  the saying "Stop & spell the roses???"
I think this is kind of obvious advice, but it's certainly worth saying after noticing how parents forget what life is all about..'ahem' heres a hint, YOUR CHILDREN!

I think its time we all make the efforf to be different. Stop to think about what you say before you say it. Stop to look around you and acutally see the people and step into their shoes. Stop to look at your child crying beside you and feel their pain and realize they need you. Stop to hear your spouse compliment you, stop to hear a bird chirp, or even a rain drop hit the ground. 
Stop...that is the message, Stop.
Be patient. There is nothing worth rushing in life. Every moment is so raw and precious. Each day should not be taken for granted. Each moment is a blessing. Yes, parenting is a true test of your patience, but your child no matter their age, they need you.

"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will" (Romans 12:2).

Love,

Jayme

Help A Mom Out.

This little princess right here...

is obsessed with her bottle! We thought we had her tricked by taking her pacifier away early when she was so dependant on that, but she quickly transitioned to using her bottle as a soother. I'm talking big time people; she has been gradually becoming more & more reliant on the bottle & I need to make a change now! I started to notice it more once we transitioned her to formula only. She can go through a container in 4 days. Shes almost 10 months old, this is a bit ridiculous. I keep telling myself "she is hungry, let her have the bottle" Since she does not eat much at each meal. However, its getting out of control. She will eat a few bites of table foods, then quickly squirm & squeal for her bottle. {Enough is Enough} Let's be honest here, she using the bottle as a form of soothing... She does not need to drink from her bottle every few hours, she does not need to scream in the car for her bottle each & every time we put her in her car seat, she does not need a bottle after every meal & she does not need a bottle to take every single nap. I know this, but when your child refuses to drink from a sippy cup, what do I do?! {I could really use your advice on this one}

Thanks,

Jayme